There is no doubt the reality I live in is one where the opposite sex is crippled with self-esteem issues.
Ancient Chinese philosopher Mencius proposed.
‘Mankind are innately benevolent’
This is true.
Yet why are more and more men exposed to the dark-side of female nature.
There are thousands and thousands of reports across the internet
The growth of MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) has been exponential
I too have been on the front-line witnessing the deterioration of femininity
In a perfect world human beings are capable of connecting with one another.
Warmly responding and communicating their thoughts and feelings.
Of course it takes time and practice to reach that level of communication
But being awkward is one thing
And being hostile is another
Yet I have seen the the later from complete strangers of the opposite sex.
These women are suffering.
You see, people who ‘hate‘ you
Usually hate themselves
People who ‘judge’ you
Usually judge themselves
It’s the same voice in their head
It’s what famous psychologist Carl Jung describes as ‘The Shadow’ Personality
All women are naturally kind hearted
Yet consumed by negative self-talk
They have low self-esteem
But how has this happened?
The answer is ‘Objectification’
Now I can’t pinpoint one source on how this human behaviour occurred.
It is most likely to be nurture and nature.
- Dominant Society Value and Beliefs
- Media- (Movies, Magazines, Pornography) , Herd Mentality, Schooling Etc
- Parents and interaction between opposite sex parents
- The survival instinct for men to spread as much of seed as possible
- The value of a woman to reproduce.
There is no doubt that:
Women trained to be ‘Objects of Desire’
Men trained to ‘Desire them as Objects’
And this has been fuelled further by our animal instincts
So you might ask
‘What does this have to do with anything and has does it explain ‘bad’ female behaviour
My theory split into 3 hypotheses
Although not all these hypotheses may not be correct.
They are all based of observations made by me and other people’s realities
1. Objectification leads to Self- Objectification which leads to Low Self-Worth
Objectification from men leads women to ‘Objectify’ themselves
Focusing their entire worth on their appearance
If they have a moment where they do not perceive themselves as beautiful
Or compare themselves to someone prettier
They feel worthless.
The issue with people who have low self-worth
Is that they believe that they are NOT worthy of love and respect
That is why most women attracted to men who treat them badly.
There is an abundance of men willing to love a women unconditionally
Even though it may be for objectification reasons
Women self-sabotage their decisions
They move towards the men more likely to cheat, insult or ignore them
Because that’s the treatment they believe they deserve.
They create their own realities.
2. Unable to understand what inner value is
Self Objectification manifests in a greater emphasis placed on one’s object value
Rather than inner value
“People who can’t see their own value. Can’t see yours. “
Women who can’t appreciate their own intellect
Can’t appreciate yours as a man.
Women can’t appreciate their own sense of humour
Can’t appreciate yours as a man.
It doesn’t matter if you are man with a range of attractive qualities
If the opposite sex can’t see their own, they won’t see yours.
3. Lack of Rejection & Overexposure to Ego-Gratification
Placing an object value on women’s body
Changes the sexual economics (supply and demand)
With women having an apparent value
This means the demand for vagina is much higher
Than the demand for penis
With supply staying the same.
This demand creates an abundance of love interests options for women
Combined with dominant society values and beliefs
Women are not required and do not feel the need to approach men
This is detrimental to women as it causes a lack of rejection
And over-exposure to ego-gratification.
The benefits to rejection is that it allows you to develop a stronger sense of self
The short term emotional pain
Results in long term mental strength
Freedom to express yourself without concern of judgement from others.
Women in this reality will rarely become mentally strong enough
To experience this freedom
Inversely the over-supply of ego gratification from men
Cripples them with social-inhibitions
Fear of the judgement from their friends or other people.
This can also lead to constant validation seeking, narcissism, obnoxiousness and female entitlement.
Ego-gratification is poisonous for the personality
This is the end of my article.
There is no conclusion or outcome
Only to describe the observations of many men in the reality I live in
And to suggest actions from those observations.
The action is to end all objectification of women.
It will not only help men, but help women.
This hostile reality we live in allows us men to become more conscious and higher thinking.
We now understand our own psychology, behaviour and the behaviour of the opposite sex.
While they are left in the unconscious world with no awareness of who they are or existence as a whole.
Gifted with this environment.
It is our responsibility to change things.